20 Self-Love Affirmations for Overcoming Anxiety and Embracing Change
- jochelle mendonca
- May 8, 2024
- 4 min read
Navigating anxiety and embracing change can be challenging, but practicing self-love affirmations can help cultivate inner strength and resilience.
As someone who from timely fashion grapples with anxiety and fear of change, I understand the power of affirmations in promoting self-compassion and confidence.
Let me share with you my 20 affirmations, to empower you on your journey towards self-love and acceptance.
1. "I am worthy of love and belonging, just as I am."
Even though I've had moments of worthlessness, I've learned that my intrinsic value is independent of approval from others.
I declare that I am worthy of love and acceptance and that I am sufficient.
2. "I release the need for control and trust in the flow of life."
I've had trouble letting go of control; even the tiniest inconvenience I encounter when I get up seems to replay in my head. Nevertheless, I've gradually come to trust life's inherent rhythm
By relinquishing control, I allow space for growth, spontaneity, and serendipity.
3. "I embrace uncertainty as an opportunity for growth and exploration."
Uncertainty = anxiety for me, but I've reframed it as an invitation for growth and discovery.
Embracing uncertainty has led me to unexpected opportunities and experiences.
4. "I forgive myself for past mistakes and embrace them as lessons."
Dwelling on past mistakes weighed heavily on me, but practicing self-forgiveness has been liberating. I view mistakes as valuable lessons that have shaped me into who I am today.
5. "I trust in my intuition to guide me towards what serves my highest good."
Making decisions that are in line with my values and desires has been made possible by learning to trust my intuition.
Trusting my inner guidance has led me to fulfilling experiences and meaningful connections.
6. "I am resilient, adaptable, and capable of overcoming any challenge."
Adversity has tested my resilience, but each challenge has strengthened my resolve.
I affirm my ability to navigate life's obstacles with grace and resilience.
7. "I honor my boundaries and prioritize self-care without guilt."
Prioritizing self-care was once met with guilt and self-judgment, but I've learned that it's essential for my well-being.
I set boundaries to protect my energy and make self-care a non-negotiable part of my routine.

8. "I am enough, exactly as I am, in this moment."
There are numerous instances. Every time I try to reach perfection, I feel inadequate, but I've come to terms with the fact that I'm already sufficient.
I affirm my worthiness and value, independent of external achievements or validation.
9. "I choose peace and tranquility in every moment, despite external circumstances."
External chaos used to disrupt my inner peace, but I've cultivated a sense of calm within myself.
I affirm my ability to find peace amidst life's storms, anchoring myself in the present moment.
10. "I celebrate my progress, no matter how small, and honor my journey."
Acknowledging my progress, no matter how incremental, has been crucial for my self-esteem.
I celebrate each step forward and honor the growth and evolution of my journey.
11. "I release comparison and embrace my unique path and journey."
Comparing myself to others only fueled feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. I now embrace my unique path and journey, recognizing that comparison detracts from my own growth and fulfillment.
12. "I welcome change as an opportunity for growth and transformation."
I used to be afraid of change and opposed it, but now I see it as an opportunity for personal development. New possibilities and chances for transformation arise with every shift.
13. "I am deserving of love, kindness, and compassion from myself and others."
Extending love, kindness, and compassion to myself was a foreign concept, but I've learned to treat myself with the same care and gentleness as I would a loved one.

14. "I release the need for approval from others and validate myself from within."
Seeking validation from others left me feeling powerless and insecure, but I now validate myself from within.
I affirm my worthiness and value independent of external validation.
15. "I nourish my mind, body, and soul with positivity, gratitude, and self-love."
Prioritizing positivity, gratitude, and self-love has been transformative for my well-being.
I nourish myself holistically, nurturing my mind, body, and soul with love and compassion.
16. "I trust in divine timing and surrender to the flow of life."
I had a hard time learning to surrender to divine timing, but it was a lesson that provided acceptance and serenity.
I have faith that everything works out for the best, leading me in the direction of my ultimate good.
17. "I release the need for external validation and find validation from within." Personal Insight: Seeking validation from external sources left me feeling depleted and insecure, but I now find validation from within.
I affirm my worthiness and value, independent of others' opinions or judgments.
18. "I am the author of my own story, and I choose to write it with love and compassion." Taking ownership of my story empowered me to rewrite it with love and compassion.
I affirm my ability to shape my narrative and cultivate a life filled with joy and fulfillment.
19. "I cultivate gratitude for the present moment and find beauty in life's simple pleasures." Gratitude has changed my viewpoint and enabled me to see the beauty in the little things in life. I give thanks for everything I have and I love the present.
20. "I am a beacon of love and light, radiating positivity and compassion to the world." Embracing my role as a source of love and light has been empowering, allowing me to make a positive impact on the world around me.
I affirm my ability to spread love, kindness, and compassion wherever I go.
Incorporating these self-love affirmations into your daily life can empower you to overcome anxiety, embrace change, and cultivate a deeper sense of self-love and acceptance.
Remember to personalize these affirmations to resonate with your own experiences and journey towards self-love.
By nurturing a loving and compassionate relationship with yourself, you can navigate life's challenges with grace, resilience, and inner peace.
Yes to all of these! Thanks for sharing these great affirmations.
Beautiful affirmations!
Such a beautifull post!
love these self loving affirmations especially no's 5, 6, 7, 8 and 18 thank you